[xafsmom]

I'm not really even partially able to understand the Grey Mind, as I've only had Izzy for a short while and Lilly's just a fuzzy football still... but just curious, if your husband hates him, maybe he's feeling that animosity and reacting to it? I know my Izzy is extremely empathic and even needs reassurance his special person is ok when she just naps. Does your husband taunt the bird out of your sight or anything? I'm not suggesting he's a bad person lol, I'm just trying to think of possible reasons. Have you tried moving his cage somewhere else, maybe remove any toys he's frightened of? /thinks thinks...