[Alan]

Well for my opinion on the gender thing. I don't think that birds can tell gender. I think what they look at is the mannerisms of a certain gender and not the gender it's self. of course he is going to recoup the cost of the bird cause to him it's prolly just property. Greys are choosy birds with who they bond too. Mine ain't bonded to me but she's happy. I would offer to take the bird. Unfortunately i don't think he will get back what he paid for the bird or you nver know he might. Just depends.

I have 12 birds. Just added too. You will have time for them to get used to hearing another bird in the house since the bird will be in Q anyway once you get it home.