awww.... you guys made me feel better!
Since I clipped her she has kept to her cage more and played.... we still get a lot of cuddle time in because I can get dinner done and everything without her flying to me every five seconds and then I'll go get her....
my other conure is also WAY less stressed because she doesn't fly to her cage anymore to start fights... YAY!!
She's actually started playing with a lot of her toys again so I'm happy and I think she is happy.
Thanks you guys!!