Hi & Welcome
If your husband is OK with this not so great behavior, you'll be OK.
Hope your new bird settles down.
It reminds me of my Mom's 2 dogs - same breed but 100% different personalities. Let's hope you can get her turned around or redirected - thankfully you have some experience - could you imagine someone like myself with this problem? - I can't.
... Well I'd be asking for help & tips from here probably!
Can't wait for photos!