Thanks so the help everyone!
Yeah- Greys stuck me as intelligent but dignified individuals

that really don't want to get by their "pet" and cuddle. Maybe they do wear off though, and every bird is different, just like we humans are, so you never know...
Hopefully I'll find a sweet Grey/M2 at a rescue center nearby in the next couple of months. Volunteering and getting to know the different types will really help, but the closest rescue is 50 minutes away- one way-

, but there is a possibility maybe...
See you in the forum!
Katia