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Do yourself and the birds a favour and pick up the book called Guide to a Well-Behaved Parrot by Mattie Sue Athan.
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ZenDragon, I can tell you're very frustrated right now. Birds REALLY like to be around people, although the room you have them in is warmer, birds can handle cooler house temperatures well... ...try an experiment...bring them in to your main living area (ie. living room, family room, etc.) and see what happens...I'll bet with all the hustle and bustle of daily life they'll have more to watch and will be quieter...and they'll be entertained without you giving them direct contact so to speak... ...try it for at least a month...you may find that once they're happier, they'll stop screaming, at least as much, and may even start to play. You might also want to model some play for them...even with your boyfriend...show them how much 'fun' it is to play with their toys...it's amazing what birds pick up from each other and from watching us... ...it may or may not help...but if it does, your issues of screaming, boring and hating the boyfriend should lessen...and hopefully become managable...
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Have you spent much time trying to work with the birds rather than having them there for your entertainment? Sounds to me like birds are not the pet for you and should go to a home in which people have the time and patience to work with them and give them the loving home they deserve.
Sounds like they are screaming for a reason and someone needs to take the time and figure out exactly what it is. The book Frank had recommended is a great one and will explain to you why your birds are screaming. Then it's up to you to figure out which reason it is and take the time in working on it. These birds deserve a great home, please take your time in finding one for them. |
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You know, not every pet is right for every person and not every season is the best one to try to keep a pet. If after you read Mattie Sue Athen's book you are still disappointed with Koda and Boo, it might be the best thing to do to find them another home. There have been times when I've made the (admittedly difficult) decision to rehome one of my birds. Without exception, each of them is much happier now than they were with me. Several years ago my sister bought a Jenday Conure who screamed with every breath she drew. After trying and trying to make the situation work, she rehomed little Jenny with a family who is even louder than Jenny. They absolutely adore her and wouldn't think of allowing her to go to a different home.
There are dog people, cat people, fish people, reptile people, bird people and many combinations. One thing is certain -- although a certain amount of training is possible with birds you won't change their basic nature -- and if that isn't right for you I can promise you that there's someone out there who thinks Koda and Boo hung the moon and stars. My only caution to you, if you decide to rehome them, is to take the time to place them in a good home where they'll be able to live happily, rather than just sending them out the door with the first person who shows an interest. Whatever you decide to do, all the best to you.
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...if we do not keep pet birds (or any other animal) for entertainment, why do we keep them? Of course we keep them for entertainment...otherwise we'd only be keeping them for the chore of keeping them, and birds are a lot of work if there's no reward for us...and in general, the human species is very selfish...if an activity does not afford us pleasure on some level, we will not do it... ...in addition to reading the book Francisus recommended, I'd seriously try to make the birds more a part of the family...then hopefully, you'll find that they bring you pleasure, that they entertain you with their antics...and everyone's quality of life will improve... ...if you find, after you've tried hard to improve the situation, that the situation has not improved, then re-homing is an option...as Joanie mentioned, not every person clicks with every type of animal, or every individual animal...but this is something you really can't know unless you've tried a relationship with that animal... ...and as Blake said...good luck...and also kudos for asking for advice or for help...that indicates to me that you certainly do care about your birds...if you didn't...you wouldn't ask and subject yourself to criticism...
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I've read your post twice and thought about it. The only conclusion I came to was you should have really THOUGHT about this more seriously before you took them in the first place. It's no small thing to rehome a bird. And your birds are probably screaming because they are lonely for some companionship. If you got stuck in a room away from everyone else, you'd scream too. I'm not going any further in this as I'm pretty put out about it. Giving your birds to someone who really wants them sounds to me like the best thing to do. I hope you never have kids and then decide they aren't your cup of tea. Linda & Skye~
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